Sandi ..in earlier post you stated "Let me make something very clear. A WAW can be nice and respectful to a stranger, but it doesn't mean she wants him for a H! Stop making it more than it is on those few times she decides to have a better mood. She will be nicer for a few hours, or maybe a couple of days......and you think she's "trying" or putting effort toward the R. She isn't." Well you are right on! The lesson here is take care of me and don't read in to what W is doing. If she wants to reconcile she will make it clear.
Yesterday W was not being very nice ...just saying things like you're annoying, why can't you go out the evenings I dont instead of getting a babysitter and you being home when I am ..blah blah. I said it's you who doesn't want to be here so go if you don't like me here. I said why can't you just be nice and pleasant to be around; it's like you just switched on to be this way once you filed. She says I could be nice but you would think I'm trying to reconcile our marriage and I don't want you getting the wrong idea.
Point taken!
Me: 47 Her: 45 M 18 years T 22 years S-6 D-9 Separate rooms 1/5/14 Wife filed for divorce 2/5/14
