It's a full, open surgery, too much going on to have a choice otherwise. It's the longest recovery obviously but safest for my health.
Thanks for the support :-) I'm sure in the end I'll be happy I did it; it's just that now I'm a wreck. My family is helping but being almost too smothering and it's making me have all these flashbacks to when XH left.
M45 Bomb 6/09; EA 6/10; Divorced 1/11 Proud single mom of 7 little feline girls and one little feline boy "Fall down 53 times. Get up 54." -- Zen saying