Homework is going well. I finished the reading on a couple days and now am searching for more.
My H did have a horrible childhood so I am sure that does not help with MLC. His dad is on marriage 3: biological mom left when H was 7 (current age of my oldest), mom 2 was verbally and physically abusive along with step sisters that abused sexually, mom 3 is great but did not come along til he was 17. He is not very close to his dad, and his dad has been no help thru this process.
I found out the OW was also abused as a child and he is using her as therapist now. He has quit therapy due to needing to pay for his lawyer to sue work - he works for the state, so his suing is ridiculous. I am pretty sure he is staying with me because it looks good until work thing is resolved. He has not been fired yet and I am not sure if that is good or bad. He needs to be knocked down.
I think the comment from my therapist about a possible snap comes from she does not necessarily believe in MLC. she has never said she does not, but she says he has bipolar tendencies and psychosis. She never worked with him, but was in contact with his therapist. At least if it was mental I could get him to take meds and he would be better instead of waiting out the MLC.
How long does the relationship with OW last? Since he calls. He bff, I know they are very attached.
I wish I could afford coaching, but with a pending lawsuit I need to save.
I cannot believe my H is do crazy he is secretly taping his boss and supervisor which is legal in our state. His first taping did not work, so he had to do it again. He thinks I don't know about this, but he left the information on my computer. I am not sure if he is dumb or wants me to catch him. What complicates things is I am friends with his boss. I have not talked to her since all this trouble, because I don't want her in difficult position. I know a lot of things him and bff have done at work that would get them fired on the spot, but have kept it secret. They are highly illegal. I found out when I used to spy and read texts, but I got caught and started reading here so stopped.
