They date OP much lower than them They begin to lie, steel, spend and cheat Its part of the crises
Im glad you are in Therapy, but just because someone is MLC does not meet they will kill their family
The main things you can do are take care of yourself, eat well , rest and sleep, talk to trusted people, go to therapy, pray if you have beliefs
Your H may swirl down and there is not much you can do to help him They have their journey MLC is caused by unresolved childhood issues and only the MLCer can fix that We can't
Many will not do the work it will take to get better and therefore will spiral down It takes many years for them to work thru it and some will get thru some will continue in destruction for years to come
We don't have to go down with the ship
Take care of the finances Watch the money closely..they spend a lot
He is not the same, as he was and all that he was is GONE for now Its hard to believe because we knew them when they were reliable
Keep posting Peace
married 14 years H 42 bomb 2/07 IDLYA D final 3 /09 M ow D ow
