Julie,

I'm sorry and sending you a hug. They do have a tendency to lie so it's always easier to not believe anything they say. I can honestly say that if h says anything, I just smile and nod. One of us lives in reality and the other is on Neptune.

Listen, I know this stings. However, you knew this all along. You are a strong, wonderful woman and a great mother. Your h is missing out on things with the kids and he can never get them back. You, on the other hand, can put your head on your pillow at night and say ,"I'm working on being the best I can be and I'm a great mother." And that does matter!

Take care of yourself financially and focus on your kids. Don't believe a word he says. Love your animals and stay calm. You CAN do this and you will be an even better person as you go through this.



3 kids
BD 12/15/13 (IDKIILY. )
Rope dropped Cirque du Soleil style
D final 9-9-14
"Some people are born on 3rd base and go through life thinking they hit a triple." Barry Switzer