Hi Up! It soundd like last night was a positive step for you. Just be careful not to get your hopes up. It is possible that H will recoil and backoff now. He might feel confused over what happened. If you see this happen just understand thst its normal. Also if your sitch keeps moving this way which I hope it does, be careful and move slowly. In my M we separate d years ago for a time and then R too quickly and it didn't work out in the end. Good luck. I ak smiling just reading this. Its nice to get such a positive experience in all of this darkness. smile


me: 47, W:49
M 16.5 years
T 17 years
Three kids - D17,D14, S13
Heart 2 heart about M 11/8/13
Bomb drop 11/29/13
W moved out 12/5/13
I Retained L 2/20/14
D filed 3/17/14