So here is a question. Let's say the lawyers get started and I get temporaily removed from the house and have to have a hearing to get back in. Do I?

Ego tells me definately yes. However, we have been living together since october as this situation gets worse and worse. I mentioned in my previous post that it seems my wife has almost developed an allergic reaction to me. No matter what I do or say, it bothers her.

She has probably been stewing for months, trying to figure a way out of this situation because in her mind she is DONE. So yes I gave her 'space' but really how much could I give her? What is the potential for me being forced out, during the 6 month divorce process, and it actually doing our R some good?

Is that being reasonably hopeful or pathetic/doormat?


me 41 w43
married 20 years
BD 10/10/13 ILYBNILWY....
4 kids, 21,18,8,6