We are going over negotiations for D. Her L has the paperwork, and should be filed early next week. She talks about missing me and possibility of R down the road if we both fix our issues. I don't know what to believe of that, but I'm staying out of her way...going along with D even though that's not what I want. I know I have a lot to change. We have our 2 young ones to co-parent....and since there's so much of my trust to earn back over time, friendship advised in this case? I think, though I don't want to be "just friends", that where our M failed, I need to be one for her to help regain that trust. I know I shattered her so if that's a part of me she doesn't want to let go of, should I be there for her when she needs it? Your advice? Thanks so much for all you have commented on so far.
