So, H was asleep this afternoon when we left for gymnastics. I just took all three kids and left. He never called or text. No big deal. They were fine with me... But usually he will come get the 2 year old so she doesn't get bored. We left gym, I stopped to get food, then we went to my grandparents. He hasn't contacted me so I assumed he was busy. He finally calls me an hour after gym is over and asks when we will be home... He made dinner. I told him we were out and already ate. He said it was fine it can be reheated for tomorrow.

Tell me why I feel bad? Usually I would call and ask about dinner but I decided not to tonight. Now I feel like an a**. However, he napped on the couch after getting a full nights sleep while I worked a 12 hour shift and took a 2 hour nap and he doesn't seem to feel bad.


Me: 33 / H: 36
M: 10y / T: 14y
3 kids
BD: 2/22/14
Live in separation 3/8/14
H consult lawyer, says filing asap 4/24/14
H moved out 4/25/14
2nd time around. 1st separation 4y ago lasted a month