I was trying to say don't get into a R talk. Try to have a nice evening. Have no expectations b/c she is not keen about spending time with you. You pressured her into coming over. Shouldn't do it.
You can be friendly but don"t settle to be her best friend. She can be friends with anyone, but M is meant to be a special R set apart from other "friendships".
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
