I was wondering if anyone has any advice. My H and I have been getting along quite well over the last couple of weeks. He usually initiates the contact, and I don't always respond, but we have been talking or texting most days. It was kind of up the in the air for a few days of whether or not I should go to visit H, as he is out of state; I asked him if we could see each other in a moment of weakness, and he was kind of wishy washy about it saying that he thought it was too soon to see each other, so I dropped the idea. Then last week, he called and asked if I would come out to visit him for a couple of days. He says he misses me, and he thinks that seeing him will help him decide what he wants from our relationship...if he is still in love with me, or if he just wants to be friends. So I will be traveling to see him for 3 days in a week and a half. Beyond acting happy and upbeat, and avoiding relationship talks, does anyone have any advice for my time with him? I'm very nervous of doing something to mess this up.
