I'm wondering if anyone has any advice for me. My H and I have been getting along quite well...I'm letting him make most of the contact, and I don't always answer back, but he is either texting or calling me most days. At first, a couple of weeks ago, he wasn't completely sure that me visiting him was a good idea, but then last week he said that he thought it over and he wanted me to visit. He said that he still isn't sure what he wants to do, in regards to our relationship, and he's hoping that seeing me will give him some clarity on if he is still in love with me or if we are better off as friends. So, even though I'm apprehensive about this, I bought a plane ticket and made hotel reservations; I will be visiting him for 3 days. Beyond no relationship talk, and remaining upbeat and acting like the person he fell in love with, is there anything I should do or focus on?