Yes, Wonka, H is very protective about his money. VERY. I know if I told H I wanted no money from him whatsoever, he would be happy to give me the kids and just plop a few dollars in my direction here and there. Maybe.

The court order stated that bonus was supposed to go into my attorney's trust. H did not do that. The only thing I could possibly be in contempt about in H's mind is that I am not paying enough of the food service bill or daycare bill or that I have not reimbursed him for expenses. I explained to my attorney I will not reimburse H for food service and we have traded expenses and no one owes anything except he possibly owes me.

But I don't want to go into a huge fight about this but H will not do the right thing. I don't know how I am going to get him to pay me support from these bonuses. H says the bonuses are figured into his income which child support is based on. But all bonuses are to be split 50/50. So this adds to the confusion which H has created.

UGH!

WH

AT BD: WH 41, J 43; Bomb 2/5/2012
Two kids, one dog
D Final 6/18/14
J marries OW 1/24/15
"No matter where you go, there you are"