For what she told me, the really affected her, I am block and I cant see how my words affected others, I just want to see how the words of others affected me, I cant see why others didnt understand what things I went thrue, they didnt understand what I had or was going thrue and everybody wanted me to move on fast from my pains and just be fine, so I never could really dwell on things, I always felt bad for having feelings and dwell and deal with harsh situations.
How about from what YOU think ???
I see that you are using the perspective of other people as your base line here...
What are some qualities that YOU feel that you have as well ??
Your base line and integrity HAS to come from within, not what others say or feel about you.
You define who you are, not anyone else....
What are some things that YOU don't like about yourself ??
