It takes time to start moving forward. The grieving process can be a short or long one, depending upon the person. Please do not judge your progress and/or your situation against others. Why? Because it one is very unique, just like diamonds...no two are exactly alike.
Be patient w/yourself and know that you are exactly where you need to be at this time.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.