There doesn't seem to be a lot of action in the other forums. I'll have a look and familiarise myself with that section though. I don't have any GAL activities at the moment. I put the woodworking projects on hold because of money, I don't have time to play Playstation anymore and the only thing that has piqued my interest outside of home recently was potentially playing soccer but I don't know what's happening with work at the moment and again, money. I've been working on finding out where my money is going so I can tighten the strings a bit and put some aside for GAL activities.

Like I said in my last post, I understand why people believe I let my wife control my actions and emotions. I do have my down moments but they're fewer and farther apart. Last night was the first time my wife said she hated me and this morning was confusion over where I stand. I get that we're separated and all that entails but I don't understand her irrational behaviour. Who in their right mind complains that someone cleans too much, especially a man? This morning gave me some clarity as to what the 'rules' were so I can live my life my way while being able to support my family, my wife included, and not alienate her further.


Me: 31, W: 29
T: 4 M: 2
Kids: 3 (SS: 7, SD: 4, D: 3)
Separated, still living together: Nov 2013
Separate bedrooms: Feb 2014
W working away; kids with me: Nov 2014