For the most part Mach hit it right on the head.....My goals was for you to realize what he said yourself. You slide back and forth into a world where your wife's actions control your action....not only in action, but also emotionally and that is my bigger concern.
Your gal'ing activities have once again taken a back seat....Yes you are working again (which I like), but otherwise it seems like you do little beyond taking care of the house. The worse part is....and you will have your reasons about taking care of the house, is that you will say you are happy doing it. B...are you truly happy or are you just limiting your horizons?
You have done some great stuff B......but you have a ways to go my friend.
As for the responses to yesterday....I think you have a choice. My opinion is that you move your posting to midlife...Not because I think your wife is MLC, but because I feel you will run into more posters and vets who can help you with you there than you can find in newcomers. Right now you are on the DB fast train which is a good thing, but you have started to outgrow newcomers.....and it is time to move to the big leagues.
