WOW! Slow,
I am super happy for you! And once again you have given me hope! To know how far you have come is amazing. To know that the ups and downs you experienced have given way to your H making the right decision for your family is so great and it makes me proud of YOU for sticking with it and learning your lessons. Congrats!!!

Confluences,
Thank you for that article. It was very good. If I am looking at it the way you intended, it made me feel like although my BF is in his own zone still...his sweet, kind-hearted nature will be victorious and beat out his selfish and non- communicative ways. The old BF who used to make me talk to him about everything and work stuff out...will resurface and our caring ways will override our current differences! Haha...no matter the intention, this is how I choose to read into it! So thanks!


Me:35
BF:36
Together 4.5 years lived together 2 years moved out 8-13
still "together" but not together.
Confused.
D11, D13 (from 1st marriage)