I just want to thank everyone who popped in this morning to say their piece. I understand that people will try to challenge me to better myself however I just needed some support this morning and I appreciate everyone's presence. It turns out my wife knows me better than I give her credit for and she knew I had questions rattling in my mind. We had an exchange this morning and I'm happy with what she said. Long-term, I'd like our situation to be vastly different but for now, I understand why she feels the way she does and I have no expectations for a relationship beyond co-parenting. It appears I have given a different impression to everyone here so I have some work to do on how I present myself.
LFW, I'd still like to know what you feel I haven't embraced. You've been a great help to me so far and I think I'm a little too close to my situation to understand what you are seeing.
Me: 31, W: 29 T: 4 M: 2 Kids: 3 (SS: 7, SD: 4, D: 3) Separated, still living together: Nov 2013 Separate bedrooms: Feb 2014 W working away; kids with me: Nov 2014