If you had a chance to read my earlier post, you already know that I am the W of a porn-addict and have seen the terrible affects of porn on my marriage and self-esteem. I want to get the perspective of married or divorced men on this forum who have dealt with porn addiction. I am just trying to understand if the hurt I felt because of my H's porn addiction is shared by other wives of porn addicts or am I really an odd-ball case.
I have four questions related to this issue:
1) was this addiction kept secret from your wife?
2) Did your porn addiction affect your relationship with your wife ?
3) If your W was aware of your porn addiction, then did she feel hurt with this knowledge?
4) What caused you to pursue the use of pornography while you were married? Was your wife lacking in looks or attractiveness?
