Everything you are going through is normal grief comes and goes so we can seem ok for a bit then like a wave it flows through us again It is better for you to allow yourself to feel it, share it and release it until it comes again Therapy is extremely helpful It will help you heal deeper and faster than on your own I think everyone is different but the first few months are the hardest , I began to feel better and better after a while maybe 18 months most of the hard stuff is done and we move closer to acceptance We learn to detach and move forward making our lives work with or without the Mlcer Many won't understand MLC some of my friends thought I was crazy to hold on , but they still supported me Many woman understand too, and I met many who went thru similar situations so hang in there finish the group and keep posting and moving forward time goes fast and the sooner we get into therapy and work our stuff out, the sooner we become more empowered and begin to heal and one day, all the pain is gone and we are totally transformed MY H MLC became the biggest Catalyst for my inner growth and through it , all my R have become better Peace
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