H called to tell me about the funeral arrangements and what his travel plans are. I asked if he'd like for me to go with him. He said that he was ok and I didn't need to because we didn't have the money for that. He doesn't really know what I have the money for since we separated finances when he moved out, but that's another matter. I told him that wasn't the question and I would go if he wanted me to go. He then said no because he doesn't want to bring D7. I told him that my sister would keep her. He still said no, so i dropped it.
On a related note, he decided to fly, so maybe my opinion matters after all.
