If hard evidence will not help you in the D or child custody, then proving it has limited benefits for sure. I mainly brought it up b/c you seem to believe whatever she says. If she is talking to him at all hours of the night.......and has admitted to making out with him, you can bet there is an A.
Starsky use to tell us that the WAW in an A would admit to a something that was a level or degree less than the truth. Like her saying they made out once. They had either already had sex at that point......or they were making out all the time. But he is more than just a good listener!
What does she have to lose by you knowing the truth? She must think it could be used against her some way. People think less of her, or something.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
