It is human nature to try to help your spouse, but human nature is part of LBS problems most times. We pursue, we ask penetrating questions, we try to fix.... and in every exampel I see on this site and read about those things make it worse. The problem with human nature to help is that it triggers their human nature to grow more disgusted, to run faster, and to detach further from us. Sorry to ring in with a negative point, but I have had a lot of problem with following my instincts and doing what I feel I'm supposed to and they usually take me further in the wrong direction.
M: 43 W: 43 Married 6 yrs. T: 7 yrs. Son 20, 18, 17, 15 yrs. (w/ Autism), 12, 10
