The more I think about it she knows it's at least an emotional affair as i do. And does it really matter if I find out more? I mean she wants the D and if her R with OM has influenced her decision, well it's her decision - i can't change it; she has to come to realize that she needs to break off contact if she wants to reconcile our marriage. I can't make that happen. And at this point she has no inclination to reconcile. Me knowing more would just allow me to throw back at her what I know when she continues to deny any E and just keeps telling me he's a nice guy who listens to her (and validates I'm sure).
Me: 47 Her: 45 M 18 years T 22 years S-6 D-9 Separate rooms 1/5/14 Wife filed for divorce 2/5/14
