Barrybran - Yet Another Thread

[Barrybran]

This morning my wife asked how much space was in the wardrobe of the spare bedroom ("your room" to her). She wanted my stuff out of our bedroom ("her room" to her) so I moved it straight away. I REALLY want to ask her where she's at, if she wants to be here in the same house, but I know it's not a good idea. I don't like that she's actively distancing herself more. It just doesn't make sense now. I'm seriously missing something, I know it, but I just don't know what it is. I've worked hard to achieve happiness for myself and it's almost as if I have a MLCer on my hands rather than a WAS. Of course, that's not the case but I have to remain patient and stay on the path because I know I've done well. I'm not perfect and I'm not trying to be anymore but I am trying to be more considerate of my wife's feelings, not that she cares, while going about my own life and taking care of the family while it's still a family.