Both of those sound reasonable to me.

Mine were:

1. No spending family finances on your affair (cellphone, cosmetic surgery) -- those would have to come out of her paycheck.

2. No texting or calling OM from inside our marital home, and DEFINITELY not in front of the kids!

3. If you're going to stay out past 11:30pm, don't bother coming home at all (she had come home at like 2am -- twice -- and so I squashed that).

4. I will not live in an open marriage (you cannot have us both).

M57 W 57; D30 D28 S24 S20 GD7 GD2 GD1 GD5m GD1m
BD 5/07; W's affair 5/07-8/07

At the end of every hard-earned day, people gotta find some reason to believe. (Bruce Springsteen)