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Thanks Sandi ...i wish I could prove the EA or PA. I dont think she is spending as much time with her girlfriends as she claims. Of course she denies it and just says this guy is a friend. But my "gut" tells me otherwise. I know she has been talking to him since last May. She has admitted to making out with him on two occasions. She was on the phone one night until 2am and when I woke up and came in the room she tried to tell me it was my sister in law but then admitted it was the OM. All that sure makes me think there is a EA or PA. In light of all that even though she said its just "conversation" she now has with him, to me its inappropriate in light of the history to have any contact with him if our R is going to have an opportunity to heal. I sure would like some hard evidence that something is going on .. incriminating texts/sexting or text about there time together. ..or even to walk in on them when they are at the bar together. Just hard because when she's out I'm home with kids. Seeing them together still would confirm EA but she seems to think an EA is ok ...but I would think they all lead to PA ...you know how guys are.