Zew, I go back to something Sandi mentioned earlier in your thread..
'The WAW in an A needs to realize she has lost something valuable. It won't be the same to everyone. You may never know what "it" is to your W.'
'It' could be your bed, could be friendship, could be the realization that the M could be over when they see we've filed. I think both of us (and many others on here) have been looking for some great idea that will snap our WAW's back to earth and make them come to their senses, but I don't know that 'it' exists in all cases. Maybe all we can do is to stand up for ourselves when the opportunity presents itself, state our boundaries, continue to GAL and continue to be patient.