I appreciate the help you've given me so far. Yesterday I organised my kids for school went to work to put food on the table, came home to cook and clean and my reward was a son who didn't want to tell me about his daughter at school and two girls who wouldn't listen and continually got into things that they were not supposed to. To top that off my wife says she hates me.
I feel frustrated that the bulk of my help comes from one person. I feel somewhat left out at times. Yet I've been able to turn myself around and make myself happy despite my situation. I don't know what changes you feel I haven't embraced. I came here for support and as well as I've done, some days I'm going to need it more than others and yesterday was one of those days. I didn't feel supported yesterday.
I'll soldier on today and I hope I enjoy it. If anyone sees anything about my situation that I don't please chime in. I don't have all the answers which is why I'm here. Often other people see what you are too close to see.
Me: 31, W: 29 T: 4 M: 2 Kids: 3 (SS: 7, SD: 4, D: 3) Separated, still living together: Nov 2013 Separate bedrooms: Feb 2014 W working away; kids with me: Nov 2014