W, you are free to make your own choices. You must live your life as you see fit. I would not have it any other way.

This is our marital bed. A marriage can only have two people. If there is another man in your life, you cannot stay in this bed.

You will be welcome back to this bed without judgment when and if you are willing to commit to our marriage.


Her whole takeaway will be "he kicked me out of my bed." and "Man, I want out of this M."

Still don't want to believe that the only tool besides DB is filing.

There's gotta be some way to have her face consequences before then.