But that puts me back to LRT and waiting for A to implode, and the whole concept of me being unable to influence anything but me.
My but you DO so much remind me of myself!!
I too have always been an introspective guy, and a bit of a wordsmith. And I liked to think that if I could just put the riiiiight words together, in juuuust the right way . . . then my wife would see the error of her walls, re-fall madly back in love with me, end her foolishness and return to the marriage.
WORDS will have NO EFFECT on her in her current state, bro. At BEST you can land a little "truth dart" or two every week or two. That's it. You can't teach a wayward!!!
Eliminate 90% of the words from your -- frankly -- holier-than-thou sermon above, and distill it down into just the 10% and then convey that to her in the form of your ACTIONS (and not your words), and MAYBE you've got something.
