Thank you, TL. Yours really fast tracked. I definitely do think the limbo is unhealthy and I can see why people don't DB. I'll re-read the rules and MLC things that helped before I go home tonight. One thing I read on some board, a woman said that if the H she married was there he would have done anything to protect her and get her away from MLC-H. I think about that often. And I think it is really important not to accept their version that the happy times were really bad.
LL 43 H 51 T 8 M 6 SS 17 15 S 6 D 3 H MLC started early 2013-think earlier actually, when BFF almost died mini-BD 8/13 separate rooms IDLYA, demands D ASAP 1/14 DR,DB,180s,LRT,GAL since mid Feb So confused
