I think I belong here #2

[TL72*]

Mine has an EA too, it still hurts. I snooped too in the beginning, and could not see the texts but saw where he was texting her on the bill and saw him smiling when he'd walk in the room after reading hers, it was all over his face. "We're just friends" but I wanted to be the one he shared things with, I was his WIFE. Yeah that really stung. Shortly after I unfriended him on FB and got the phones separated so I wouldn't be tempted to snoop anymore. Just have to let him go through it and see that the grass isn't any greener over there. Nothing you can do to stop it, he'll get bored with it eventually when he figures out that he's missing the one person who actually KNOWS him. You're the mother of his children and that will never change. He will always be part of your life on some level. Try not to focus on it, thinking of it just hurts more. I try and push those thoughts away when they start to snake in my mind. I do wear a rubberband now on my wrist to snap and you can visualise a stop sign if you find yourself wondering about things. A lot of times what our minds make up is worse than it is in real life. Hang in there. You're not alone.