He'll huff and he'll puff - my intro

[TL72*]

I'm so sorry, I know it makes you feel sick to your stomach, been there done that. Odd behavior? Get used to that. Secretive? yep. Mine didn't even tell me when he was moving out, I finally asked when I saw a few things missing and he moved out the very next day. He didn't think it was important to tell me when, figured I would just have the money for the full mortgage payment on my own. Mine took his ring off at BD, I wore mine another week or so while processing it and then finally took it off. didn't want to. It all svcks, I try to find anything positive about this whole thing and all I can come up with is that I lost 20 lbs and that I can actually relax now that he's not in the house anymore. Time to focus on yourself and your children. I think we'll stay confused for awhile, trying to make sense of it when maybe we should stop asking "why" and just start to GAL. I have not been able to stop asking questions. I know in my head that it doesn't matter, it doesn't change anything if I have answers, he's still gone and still in MLC and it's still going to last years so I have no choice but to move forward. Keep posting, you're not alone. Read and re-read the resources, they do seem to help make sense of the nonsense. Make him do all the work if that is what he wants to do. Take care of you.