Divorce busting will save YOU if not your marriage then so i'd say yes is absolutely worth it, have you read the DB/DR books? They will give you lots of tips and good advice on not only trying to move your R with your H to a better place but more importantly how to move forward yourself regardless of your H's actions & choices.
I think we all go through the period of crying, begging, pleading, shouting but there comes a point when we realise that it isnt helping (usually making things worse!) and its time for something different - Divorce busting is that something different, surely its worth a shot?
Good luck!
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