Thanks for the input, Scorp. I'm honestly not sure my H actually wants my opinion. I think he really just wants me to agree with him. For him, me not agreeing with him is equivalent to me not being supportive. That isn't mind reading. He's actually said that to me several times during our M.
Regardless, I think I will offer to go with him. I think it is the right thing to do and I want to be there for him.