Sandi, i can still call her out about telling our daughter "its too late ...i asked him to change a long time ago ...blah blah" ...and i will because later in the night she said "dont think our D doesnt know something is wrong" ...but when i call herl out, what do i say? Don't tell daughter things like it's too late, nothing mom can do to want to be here. Or do I tell her you're the one on the EA or whatever it is and does want to work on our MR and go to counseling or RetroV, you are the one who wants to break up our family ...so don't tell our daughter it's my fault because you asked me to change a long time ago and now it's too little to late and MY fault? Would love some guidance ...
On the other issue I thought I was wrong in the cake incident because I really didn't want to do it ..but was me wanting to control her from going out with her friends i dont like.
Me: 47 Her: 45 M 18 years T 22 years S-6 D-9 Separate rooms 1/5/14 Wife filed for divorce 2/5/14
