Still here, not much new. I'm putting some time into my financial situation, active on the job search but awaiting that first interview still, taking care of the boys, and working on my musical ambitions. Same old same old. Just thought I'd let my friends here know I'm still here.
Saw my H for a second yesterday. He texted that he was coming but without any notice so I had plans and S16 had plans. He went in S14's room and took a nap and snored, per S14's report. Left us dinner and took off. He gets his work mail addressed to my house, which is a source of irritation to me. I've asked him a few times to update his records. It causes me some pain that without asking or considering how I feel about it, he is using the home he left in 2012 as his address of record and using me as his mail handler, and I've asked him not to and he hasn't changed it. It's a small annoyance, one I don't feel like making a bigger deal than the occasional reminder when something official like this Fed Ex from his employer arrives.
It's a little thing, and I have bigger things to put my mind on. Keep your fingers crossed that I get some good interviews!
Adinva 51, S20, S18 M24 total 6/15/11-12/1/12 From IDLY to H moving out 9/15/15-3/7/17 From negotiating SA to final D at age 50 5/8/17-now: New relationship with an old friend __ Happiness is a warm puppy.
