Hey BA, you and your dad are in my prayers. You've made the choice you must make, and now make the best of it. See if you can skype or facetime with your dad until you can get back. Say what you need to say by phone. I'm sending you encouragement for the strength to handle supporting your daughter and attending to your dad.
I think the idea of delaying the hearings is valid too, in case you find it possible.
Adinva 51, S20, S18 M24 total 6/15/11-12/1/12 From IDLY to H moving out 9/15/15-3/7/17 From negotiating SA to final D at age 50 5/8/17-now: New relationship with an old friend __ Happiness is a warm puppy.