Something else I hate:

"Sightings." And people telling me about them.

My D16's BF came over last night and said he saw H and OW together at a grocery store about a week ago.

They're PUBLIC with the A now?!? Even though both have spouses?

Guess it's definitely "out" now.

Another kick in the gut ...

M: 40 H: 44
Married 14 years
S11 & D6; D20 & D19 from previous M
2BDs/PAs, 8 years apart
Piecing: April 2014