If she said (again?) that she didn't have anything specific that she wanted you to do, would you be open to hearing and accepting that?
Maybe your insistence that she has to come up with something for you to do in order for you to let yourself off the hook...which she has already left in the past and is fine moving forward from...is creating a problem where there is none.
Adinva 51, S20, S18 M24 total 6/15/11-12/1/12 From IDLY to H moving out 9/15/15-3/7/17 From negotiating SA to final D at age 50 5/8/17-now: New relationship with an old friend __ Happiness is a warm puppy.
