With your accumulated PTO, will you get paid out for it when you move? Are you staying within the same organization in a different place? That could be a nice parting check for moving expenses.
Still no word on if she accepted the proposed settlement. She has sent me 3 emails in the last few days. She finally did her part of the taxes. I haven't responded to the emails as of yet, not sure if I'm going to until I hear her response to my proposal. Divorce is awful. I'm having days where my emotions kind of take over again, since this will be my new reality. Working hard to just make room for the feelings and accept them for what I'm feeling at that time.
Still sober and still staying active though. So I've got that going for me.
H: 29 WAXW: 30
Bomb Drop- 9/9/13 Negotiated Settlement- 5/9/14 D Final- 5/21/14 XW has breakdown in attorney lobby- 5/30/14