There's little book by Pema Chodron "When Things Fall Apart" (you con't have to be Buddhist for it to connect with you). I truly felt that my world had fallen apart. All the plans we made were gone, money was an issue (I thought), I would never be able to retire, my kids would like him better than me, I was a failure... blah, blah, blah, victim, victim, victim. That book really helped to bring me out of that and to figure out me. It has gotten me through a lot of tough times. It's not long, and you can read one chapter and let it marinate for a couple of days, then read another chapter.
Bug - I just ordered the book! I cant wait to read it. I still struggle with the unfairness of the situation and no longer want to be the victim.
