Oh I forgot to add this is apparently a major flaw in my personality in general. I just got feedback at work that my staff "doesn't stress" about getting stuff done because they know I will pick up the slack.
Me 44 H 42 M 10 T 12 (at time of BD) Ss 20 16 S11 (special needs)
BD 9/13 H "unhappy for years" moves to seperate bedroom 10/13 EA/PA confirmed but denied S and I move out 3/15