I see W anger as being a poison too. They sure take it out on the people closest to them. If I shouldn't talk to her while she is angry, I just need to let her be and not talk to her until she can get past it. What if that never happens?

Life its a cycle and for sure it will pass, now here is what you dont want to hear... It will pass and it might happens that she doesn't want to be back with you...

Look cnfused, I know how crazy all this sounds, but she has to walk this path by herself and she doesn't want you to interfere you understand? It has nothing to do with you but she will use every excuse and each of your actions to go against you....
Anger its a dangerous poison, one that murders, one of the most dangerous ones, you would not get in the middle of Hannibal Lecter full of anger right?
Thats the way you have to see this, for as long as she is angry, you cant talk to her, acceptance its the key.

Accept that life its giving you time to make things in a different way.

Lets do something interesting, do a list with the 4 priorities you have in your life right now, choose 4 and write them here.

When the student its ready, the teacher will appear...
Even after all this time the sun never says to the Earth, "You owe me."
Look what happens with a love like that,It lights the whole sky.