Well, no matter if he realizes it or not, he is having an EA. Confirmed by my snooping. Trust me, I know I shouldn't have but curiosity killed the cat. At least now I know. Nothing physical or sexual yet. Just him flirting with her, telling her she looks good, and promising to be the first to tell her things (getting his motorcycle license). Oddly enough, I'm fairly okay. I knew in my heart it was happening I just needed my head to catch up I guess.
Me: 33 / H: 36 M: 10y / T: 14y 3 kids BD: 2/22/14 Live in separation 3/8/14 H consult lawyer, says filing asap 4/24/14 H moved out 4/25/14 2nd time around. 1st separation 4y ago lasted a month