W and MIL don't really talk - W thinks she's strange. I didn't feel that I did get into R talk with MIL, but wondered if she knows about our sitch or was only telling me about her past and how much it hurt her when she went through D while she was growing up.
I see W anger as being a poison too. They sure take it out on the people closest to them. If I shouldn't talk to her while she is angry, I just need to let her be and not talk to her until she can get past it. What if that never happens?
Living separately but in the same house makes this difficult. At times I think D would be the easy way out but not much self growth there. I want to stand for my M and do what needs to be done for myself and son.
Would you look at earlier post's and see if you have any other advice?
Thanks!
Me: 55, W: 46 T: 17 M: 15 S: 10 3 S prev M 25 23 21 Unhappy 10/12 Asked to move out 1/14 NILWY 2/14 Sep rooms: 1/14 BD 3/14 W filed 5/14 Trial 12/14
