CP, I too am a 2nd time arounder with young kids. I feel your pain. I also understand all too well how it feels to be more at ease when H isn't home. Mine is still living with us as this 2nd time has only gone on for a month so far. I hope you can get things figured out and settled for your own peace of mind. I too have been wondering about AD but I am scared to pull the trigger.

Best of luck.


Me: 33 / H: 36
M: 10y / T: 14y
3 kids
BD: 2/22/14
Live in separation 3/8/14
H consult lawyer, says filing asap 4/24/14
H moved out 4/25/14
2nd time around. 1st separation 4y ago lasted a month