JP, thanks for your response. Your advise is greatly appreciated. Yes, indeed I realize the only variable I have a control over, is myself. I have to either adapt myself to deal with my H, or find a way to get of this situation.
On a different note: I read one of your earliest posts where you mentioned that you were addicted to online porn. I have two questions related to this issue: 1) Did your porn addiction affect your relationship with your wife or was this addiction kept secret from your wife? 2) If she was aware of it, then did she feel hurt with this knowledge?
3) What caused you to pursue the use of pornography while you were married to a woman you obviously love so much. Was your wife lacking in looks or attractiveness?
I am just trying to understand if the hurt I felt because of my H's porn addiction is shared by other wives of porn addicts.
